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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
4 D! x0 y. r# Z& {( J4 Fnursing home today. 8 {5 O7 F+ H" P5 p
& ~& X. _/ ^% K+ s' N2 z' kHis wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. & _; Y _8 @" Q
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
) V. L/ S# t4 F N% ?% K7 D2 o: ]8 N+ khe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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" @) D$ A, @$ s- IAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 0 ?* b% j& |. j: |" ~
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been % g- R& R, e' @ w5 s5 U/ ?
hung on his window.
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0 i8 A) v' ~8 m/ u, @"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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$ D3 p: f! V! U" X' H! P* Y"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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# @: w0 w( l2 p0 H9 c- k- G"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. . h; M# I1 z$ v0 T- i& U; h- o
7 P& L; ?4 f7 m* }' o- {) d"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my / W$ l5 W3 P3 n0 S4 a
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
7 j1 n% h9 [* w# `, }6 XI arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." ! I1 T. {6 E0 W8 A; {% [% M; w
7 r4 Q0 i* K3 g4 aIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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3 [* K; Q2 G* q! |I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I 2 r& q9 L" h @! J+ M% J" ^
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new " B5 t) H s. x1 Z; U* d
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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Just for this time in my life.
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3 p" q& d# y, q6 V- mOld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. ) U% a4 y) _& Y% f
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
" Y2 {$ f' U" O6 ?account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. / ?# P8 E0 k! y0 Q- g
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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7 w, y8 r5 _2 |2 x 1. Free your heart from hatred. % H( e1 e' u" P$ P/ m$ W
2. Free your mind from worries.
8 x) Y. c9 q: z& ? 3. Live simply.
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( E+ O6 [1 _+ |2 p1 G 5. Expect less. |
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