如果我没有选择

JoyceAccSG · 发表于 2014-1-22 16:28

如果我没有选择，我就不会在工作上挑来挑去。
如果我没有选择，我就会持守婚姻。
如果我没有选择，我就不会想吃这个，不想吃那个。
。。。

有时候过多的选择会使人迷茫，不知哪一个是自己真正要的，也难以体会持守的美丽。

健康营养站 · 发表于 2014-1-22 17:29

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Shian · 发表于 2014-1-22 18:48

生活的魅力就是在于你总有选择，来加拿大的好处就是你可以不停选择，为什么非要搞的没有选择，没有选择就没有生活了。

willl · 发表于 2014-1-22 19:28

No choice, no joy.

redrunner · 发表于 2014-1-22 20:53

没有选择

JoyceAccSG · 发表于 2014-1-22 21:16

Shian 发表于 2014-1-22 18:48
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sometimes one choice can be a bad choice.

JoyceAccSG · 发表于 2014-1-22 21:16

willl 发表于 2014-1-22 19:28 4 p: X* G! \; g7 }5 H
No choice, no joy.

Even a silly choice?

人行明镜中 · 发表于 2014-1-22 21:56

选择，即使错的，也是属于自己的伤悲。我们在选择中成长。

补充内容 (2014-1-24 10:48):
好多花啊！

linazhang · 发表于 2014-1-22 23:31

健康营养站发表于 2014-1-22 17:29
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好可爱呀！

marie · 发表于 2014-1-23 00:01

Shian 发表于 2014-1-22 18:48 / r; C4 k% w1 S. }
生活的魅力就是在于你总有选择，来加拿大的好处就是你可以不停选择，为什么非要搞的没有选择，没有选择就没 ...

爱城柳州妹 · 发表于 2014-1-23 09:50

看到“选择”，想起读过的一篇心灵鸡汤，幸好收藏了，贴过来给大家分享
Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, “ If I were any better, I would be twins!”
He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went to Jerry and asked him, “ I don’t get it! You can’t be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?”
Jerry replied. “ Each morning I wake up and say to myself, ‘Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.’ I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happen, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.”
Jerry回答说：每天早晨我醒来以后对自己说：‘你今天有两个选择。你可以选择一个好心情也可以选择一个坏心情。’于是我选择好心情。每一次有糟糕的事情发生的时候，我可以选择做一个牺牲品或者选择从中学到些东西。于是我选择学习到东西。每一次有人跟我抱怨的时候，我可以选择接受他们的抱怨，也可以选择向他们指出生活中乐观的一面。于是我选择生活中乐观的一面。
“Yeah, right, it is not that easy.” I protested.
“Yes, it is.” Jerry said. “ Life ia all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It’s your choice how you live life.”
生活有很多选择，当你清除所有障碍，每一种情况都是一种选择。你选择如何应付生活中的种种情形，你选择人们影响你的心情的方式，你可以选择好心情或是坏心情。归根结底：你的生活是由你自己选择的。
I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a reataurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.
I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, “ If I were any better. I’d be twins. Wanna see my scars?”
I declined to see his wounds, but asked him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. “ The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door.” Jerry replied. “ Then as I lay on the floor, I remember that I had two choice: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I choose to live.”
“ Weren’t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?” I asked.
Jerry continued, “ The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, He’s a dead man.”
“I knew I needed to take action.”
“What did you do?” I asked.
“Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me,” said Jerry. “She asked if I was allergic to anything. “Yes,” I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, “Bullet!” Over their laughter, I told them, “ I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.”
Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.
You have 2 choices now:
1. Crib about your daily life and what are you doing and be unhappy
2. Enjoy every moment of your life and give to your best.
Please keep smiling always
Jerry得以活命要感谢医术高超的医生, 但是也因为他惊人的乐观态度。
我从他身上学到了我们完全有机会选择我们的每一天。而选择的态度则决定一切。
你有2个选择：
1 禁锢你的生活和限制你在做的事情，并且不开心。
2 享受生活的每一刻并展现最好的给别人。

willl · 发表于 2014-1-23 19:46

JoyceAccSG 发表于 2014-1-22 21:16
1 g" Z h2 |9 ~( u- J( VEven a silly choice?

在国内就没什么选择，出身决定命运，坚决移民。
在加拿大有一定选择，制度保障自由，享受生活。

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