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three low M (Japanese: Three low, san て い) refers to the current popularity of Japanese women in a mate, that is low profile, low-risk, low-bound men. The term relative to the past, the Japanese bubble economy period (1980) advocates the three high-M, that is highly educated, high income,chaussures nike shox, tall objects.! V& h( j1 S/ X& d X6 G
low profile (Japanese: low position): refers to the "video game,chemise polo pas cher, ィ レ? フ ァ? ス Suites" or "Lady first\courteous treatment of women, respect for the woman. Such as "Train Man"-like innocent and thoughtful men.
0 e1 I$ |4 s# q1 j) n& c S low risk (Japanese: Low リ ス ク): refers to a low-risk occupation, that is, they have taken proper and stable work, and not any resignation. For example: teachers, civil servants, office workers, salary is not high but economic independence of the occupation. 2 ~" u0 g* g1 M1 q( l1 F& V6 J
lower bound (in Japanese: a low dependency): refers to the non-bound woman, and family and personal business matters are not dependent on his wife, and to the lives of both sides respect each other. Is independent in their daily lives can, to share the burden of housework and childcare, both parties can feel at ease in their careers. + w, q7 O( F& x
Origin
: `4 Z: j- U" t traditional Japanese society has been patriarchal, male to "conceit" as the ideal type of woman to get married with the traditional Chinese society, "men and women stay home" concept similar. Male hands are an economic burden, while women with husbands at home, teaching the word. Women continue to be free to object during the marriage, naturally the selection of social status, to bring ample economic conditions for the families of men as husbands. During the bubble economy in particular, popular so-called "three high" in a mate, that is "highly educated, high income, tall," because there were so many conditions for the people of high social status, to ensure that the family blueprint perfect.
; ]8 i/ h9 `! g# K0 } since the bubble economy burst in Japan in the 1990s, the economy is sluggish, the employer cancel lifetime employment, salary will not increase with the years of stability, coupled with reduced benefits. Therefore, the increase in low-income men, and the gap between rich and poor, now 30 to 35-year-old single Japanese men, 4 percent, and low-income people is increasing. Estimate, now 20 years old to 50-year-old man may not marry is still a quarter.! ]3 z J& o6 W: s+ |4 b
the other hand, Japanese women more independence, into the society and find work to feed themselves. Therefore, consisting of double-income families live, the men have nothing to do in the traditional after work, but after the women after work but had to do a wife, mother writers. General work even in the workplace, men turn a blind eye,christian louboutin shoes, all the women take care of. This unfair situation for women in marriage, new age and people began to change. Makes the understanding of women's needs and ideas, and full respect for women who were welcomed.& C- q- ~( {; I9 Q5 f/ y# ?
the socio-economic development for single men and women of marriageable age increased, late marriage and not even much higher proportion of marriage, marriage agency business in order to obtain customers, according to the social reality proposed the "three lows" matching conditions. Both men and women in basic economic capacity of the independent case, began to pursue the ideal of true love, look for mutual respect and mutual respect, and can share love and responsibility of sharing partners. Therefore needs to fit in with the concept became popular, and indirectly extended to Asian neighbors.
1 ^$ E0 q: y4 w3 G& R- S! f% Y# z reason women choose to find three reasons for low male as a partner, because the three men have the following characteristics of the low:2 Z) p" F ^) a! w, v
understand the respect for women: late marriage and women are not married do not want to fall in love, but the fear of bondage by their families after marriage, couples need to respect themselves and understand their needs and ideas. Because many middle-aged unemployed people, women so that it is more stable income. In addition, they also need privacy and space of life, hope can still develop their potential marriage.
) l- z0 W& C6 ~, N, f1 E! ~ know how to promote conservation: Modern women are most concerned about is the male character and taste, can not guarantee the conditions of the three high will be a partner will respect, value, caring themselves, but also highly motivated, have good tastes and temper of the people.
$ n1 M1 r: ^3 n know how to take care of themselves: a good man should be best left not only love, but also to take care of your body, not be worried about, not when one does not transfiguration of Superman, from time to time for work, or debt- hurt the family. , l, G/ P4 T$ ?( j
know how to self-management: will make the time and emotional self-management, orderly life, and are free to take care of your partner's physical and mental condition, given appropriate care.
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year 2002, Japan's National Institute of Population Social Security made a survey found that more than half of Japanese women asked object "is willing to cast aside to help the housework and child care" and "to understand their work and to help"; 3 one-half of Japanese women will require more than "economic power"; only 5.8% of people care about "education." Therefore, Japan's "three-high men" popular as before.
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as Taiwan's economy and Japan are turned rise phase,abercrombie fitch hoodies, but slightly different socio-cultural and Japanese men and women are more care will take care of part of the family. AD 2006, a survey conducted for Reader's Digest, Taiwanese women were among the best in a mate as a "character" and "taste and Culture"; "academic\cynical "and" casual uninhibited, "you can not debut. "Three-high man" in Taiwan's performance has deteriorated.
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China is in the bubble economy period, and the huge gap between rich and poor. AD 2006 according to the online survey results, more than half of women choose "a stable job, income ordinary,ed hardy t shirts, ordinary social status, but in good health, good-hearted man"; "work less stressful, a lot of time with you and take care of the family, But the material does not meet your man ";" good temper,juicy couture purses, gentle, will always buy you a small gift to man. " China's "three-low men," but is very popular in today.. M1 w& U) ]5 G7 r5 ]' V5 K6 K
Hong Kong
! p3 @$ p! w1 z2 I0 `1 e; r- F Hong Kong by the influence of western culture, women are more like to have grace, willing to treat our men and women, married men are more willing to help with the housework. According to Radio Television Hong Kong and the Hong Kong City University of Social Sciences in 2006 to complete the survey, 84.3% of women in a mate to economic stability, followed by a learned and knowledgeable, and gentle carefully, choose the mighty tall and handsome refined less than a into, and there is no requirement of high academic qualifications or substantial income. |
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